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Saturday, August 29, 2009

so stupid

Sometimes, there will be somethings that somehow even if u say "no", the 2nd party just would not get it.

It's irritating when a person know where and why he is wrong, and he tells everyone, but in the end blames another person who commit the same mistake which he have not even corrected. It's kind of ironic. Maybe not ironic. . . and probably, this is where the hierachy comes in.
Raising one's accomplishment of helping others then, in turn criticize those that were helped. This is nothing but in any sense trying to gather hatred from those around them just because of some displeasement. The worse thing is when things that are not said are weaved into truth and there's no way that the person is going to admit.

So, defending oneself will be a must. Why cower in fear and misjudgement from people when you are not in the wrong? Why admit that you are wrong when you are not? WHY is there a need to give in when you have given up all but everything? When in doubt, ask and not reprimand for whatever that he have done wrong. If not, there's no way in any sense that you have the right to criticize others.

Just because you have some arguments with the person does not mean that you can hate that person. Just because you hate the person does not mean that he is a bad guy. JUST because you are having a bigger authority and support does mean that you can do every single thing to base hatred to the person and even worse, take away ones that are close to him. JUST because you misread one's intention DOES NOT MEAN that you can talk behind their backs when actually, you have always been in the wrong.
If you are unhappy with someone, tell him. If you do not dare to tell him, then how do u expect him to ever learn. If you commit the same mistake that you tell the person not to do, then, I am ashamed of you.
Misjudging the reason for a particular person of doing something, then back-stab him as if he is totally wrong. The worse thing is when he has to endure whatever that was said and whatever that was untrue. This is ridiculous especially when you are the one that has been in the wrong. There's a reason why God gave you a mouth and vocal chord. It's for you to ask. If you do not want to ask and nor do you want to know the reason behind it, then shut up. Bitching about him is not going to help him. You are doing nothing but aggravating the situation. Hatred would start gathering between you two and soon, even if you have won in finding his fault, in the end you have lost.

You have lost a best friend of yours. You have lost a confidant. You, have lost one of the best thing in the world.
And for what reason? You know it.
This is not going to stop as you are doing the same thing to almost everyone around you. Probably saying this right in front of your face may help, but in the end, from your character you will lose another best friend of yours.
Someone who would share troubles with you. Someone who brought happiness to you. Someone who also brought pain to you.
Treasure everyone around you. Sooner, or later, you will realise you have been losing more that what you have won. In the end you will live in a world of regret. Take my words and look beyond.

If you were to love the person, I do not think you will even do whatever that you have done. Looking at the fact that I have written about you, think how much unhappiness to those who shared the joy with you before. But nothing is too late, if not I would not even have written this entry. And if you are unhappy with this, think about how others felt. This also mean that you know what you have done.

To those I call friends

- Wei Yang

*edited- this is not about a particular person, more of a group.

!Wei Yang signed off at 2:16 PM